NEW: ONLINE MEN’S GROUP

This is an English speaking group, that meets once every month online.

I really like the atmosphere of men among themselves: openness, firmness and sharp interaction. This is the starting point for mature masculinity: unconditional friendship, cards on the table, no beating around the bush and encouraging each other to take daring steps.
What I can do, you can do, and what you can do, I can do too.

In my men’s groups we explore what it practically means to adopt the male (active) polarity in all your relationships. The world and women are receptive to you and waiting for your impulse. So take action. You will then receive feedback, also in terms of results. So if something doesn’t work, it means that you have to change something in your approach. And that requires in depth exploration and that is what we do in the group.

If you are in interested mail (steven@mature-masculinity.com) or phone me +31 654308195.

MASCULINITY-COACHING


Masculinity-coaching is dedicated to the quest for maleness: how to claim your male potential. In other words, how to become a true and mature male, proud and relaxed in being male, clear in what you want and responsible in the way you deal with women and the world.

In this age and time many of us have lost our natural feeling for what it means to be a male. (Or to be a female when you are a woman.) It is not about holding on or going back to old role models, nor is it about embracing fashionable new ideas about gender. The only true answer, for you as a man, you find deep within yourself. It always leads you to your true male potential. Masculinity-coaching is there to assist you in your personal quest.


Masculinity-coaching offers three things: a coaching-program in 10 stages; stand alone coaching sessions and an ebook: ‘handbook man’.

Interested?
Send an email to steven@mature-masculinity.com for a FREE online skype coaching-session to get acquainted, to explore your challenges and/or ask your questions. My interest is to meet you. No obligations.

ONLINE COACHING PROGRAM

I offer a very affordable online coaching program for men wanting to explore their potential: your personal quest for maleness.
There are 10 stages, 1 every 14 days. The sequence has a huge learning effect as we go deeper and deeper.

Each stage consists of:

  • a 4 page text about an aspect of mature masculinity
  • questions for you to answer from your personal experience
  • a focussed coaching session of half an hour in which we explore these answers


    • The price is only €30 per stage, because I want every man who is truly interested to be able to follow this course. I feel it is important for men to become true males. The world and females are waiting for you.
    You can already start with 4 stages for € 120.

    HERE you can read about the full program.

    Of course, I am also available for regular coaching: one or more sessions of 1 hour. My price is € 75/hour.

    “I am in search of the impeccable honour, the quiet dignity, the unwavering hope and the tenacious courage that is implied within the essence of the true male.” Théun Mares

    MALE-FEMALE RELATIONSHIP

    The male-female polarity is at the basis of all of life. An intimate relationship between a man and woman is therefore the most challenging relationship there is. Potentially it is he most fulfilling but in practice it is the most difficult. If you want to become a mature man, at the very least, you’ll have to learn to cooperate intelligently with the woman. This involves truly including her in your life.

    The biggest challenge for a male is not to make a mother of her by acting like a passive little boy or irresponsible rebel. The biggest challenge for a woman is to be a true female and refusing to go into mother mode and thus become a second rate male.

    “The REAL test in any relationship lies, NOT in how EASY it is, but in WHAT we can LEARN from one another! In other words, if a relationship is not RECIPROCAL in terms of what we learn from one another, it serves no REAL purpose other than being something we like just because we like it for self-centred gratification. 🙂 A truly good relationship is one in which BOTH people concerned are pushed BEYOND their comfort zones in LEARNING about themselves and about each other, and such a relationship is NEVER easy, but on the contrary, is CHALLENGING at every step of the way!” (Théun Mares)

    Click HERE to learn what a mature male-female relationship looks like.
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    A true male is a warrior of the heart

    ABOUT ME

    I am Steven Somsen. I live in the heart of Rotterdam, The Netherlands, together with my wife Peggy Eleonore.
    I have been busy in my life along two lines. The first: a career as a developer of urban buildings and areas. Here I could step forward and test myself in the world as all men must. And parallel to that: an inner search for the meaning of life.
    Steven Somsen
    From the age of 38 these lines started to touch and influence each other: mature masculinity became the theme and in 1994 I started my first men’s group. This interest deepened when I met Théun Mares in 2000. Here was a man who not only had deep knowledge of the mystery of the sexes and masculinity but also fully lived it. It would take me 9 more years to digest this first meeting and be ready to start living this new knowledge myself. Although I do not have the illusion (nor the wish) to ever be done learning, I can say that I am now quite a veteran, tried and tested, also in the “battle” between the sexes…. I now coach men 1-on-1 and lead several men’s groups.

    Men have to wake up, rather sooner than later, and step up to the plate. In the words of Shakespeare’s Henry V addressing his men at Agincourt:

    “Once more unto the breach, dear friends, once more”

    CONTACT

    Steven Somsen:
    mobile: +31 654 308 195; mail: steven@mature-masculinity.com; skype: steven.somsen
    home: ‘s-Gravendijkwal 73A, 3021EE Rotterdam, The Netherlands
    (click HERE for the Dutch version of this website)